Stepping Into the Awareness of Now
January 22nd, 2008 by John Wolfe
Have you ever pondered the significance of the mile markers, billboards, sign posts, and scenery along your daily drive? I’m talking about a deeper significance a little further below the surface. For most of us these things just blend into the periphery, becoming an ever increasing blur of shapes and colors as we’ve grown accustomed to their presence.
We stare out the windshield while our mind wades through a ton of minutia: thinking about what we did yesterday, last week, last year, and what we’ll be doing today, tomorrow, and next month without paying much attention to what’s whizzing by either side of our vehicle. Yet, what’s whizzing by us is the very reason we perceive ourselves capable of arriving at the destination we’re en route to reach.
Those trees, bushes, advertisements, pedestrians, and signage serve as points of reference. Of course, we get to where we’re going through our own inertia; however without those reference points dotting the landscape we would have no awareness of whether or not our movement was taking us anywhere and our arrival at our destination would be impossible to detect.
Just like the items that are providing the references for our journey along the highway, our past and future experiences provide reference points for our life’s journey. Unlike the points along the roadside however, most of us spend a great amount of time paying far too much attention to past events and pondering our future. We seem to get caught up in the trance of our own mind, hundreds if not thousands of times each day.
I’m not suggesting we shouldn’t acknowledge the past, nor am I suggesting we must disregard the future. I’m pointing to the fact we have a tendency for consistently neglecting the present; missing the understanding that all of our creative power and abilities lie in the moment of now. To grasp why this is so important, I think it’s necessary to deconstruct some concepts we have about time and the powerful hold it seems to have over us.
Where do the past and future actually exist? Where has either of these reference points ever truly existed? There’s only one place- within our mind. With regards to the past, you might be saying to yourself, “I was there. I distinctly remember the specific event unfolding. You can’t tell me it was all in my mind.” Of course you were there as it unfolded, but where is there in this present moment? How are you accessing it? You’re accessing it with your thoughts and you’re doing it in the only moment you’ve ever been able to exist within- the moment of now.
We have a tendency to strongly associate with our past because it serves as a means for internally validating and verifying who we are and where we’ve come from. But if we would sit still for a moment and let our minds quiet, we could feel that our past has never been the solid structure we’ve built it up to be. And while the future is definitely being influenced by our current thoughts and feelings, we still must be present in our moment of now as it’s our only vehicle for accessing that next future moment of now.
What I’m suggesting is that we’ve never had a past or a future in the truest sense of the words. All we’ve ever had and all we’ll ever have is the current moment in which we are aware for the sake of being aware. Our life is not one event placed in front of another and another and so on. Instead, it only exists right now and that’s all it will ever be.
Our brains do a clever job of piecing together all of the points of reference we consider to be our life experience. The brain processes millions of bits of information every second, yet we’re only capable of consciously tuning into an extremely small percentage of those bits. And even then we allow ourselves to become distracted from our present point of awareness. This little three pound organ has been wired in such a way to convince us of the legitimacy of a sequential physical experience, just as the roadside scenery indicates to us we are moving along the interstate.
We actually exist (at a deeper level of reality) in a suspended state of now, which is our true source state of being, but we’ve concocted processes and concepts like time and matter to convince us there are multiple reference points existing all around us. This is done to convey movement and progression in a sequential, linear, measurable manner; however we attach a seriousness and consequences to this progression which mean very little in relation to who and what we truly are. While all of these things are important elements for interacting within a physically based plane of existence, it’s important to keep our perspective about our true state of awareness.
If we lose sight of where our creative power resides, our lives can quite easily spiral out of control. We can see evidence of this based upon how often we lack being completely present in the now experience. A large portion of our population goes through the motions each day, yet is only focusing upon the present moment with a very small fraction of their energy and awareness. They are extremely fragmented and fractured during the entire course of their lives.
This isn’t a horrible realization or revelation to reach; on the contrary, it can serve as a vital tool for our empowerment. One of the leading causes, if not the leading cause of stress and dysfunction to the body is what I call runaway mind syndrome.
Runaway mind syndrome affects 99% of the population. This “syndrome” leads to consistent, anxious, stressful responses within the brain and the body responds in kind. This is the extreme opposite of full present awareness. I believe there is not a single disease (or dis—ease) on this planet that doesn’t stem, at a deeper level, from consistent exposure to the body’s responses to the stress brought on by the runaway mind.
Our doctors and scientists have fashioned fancy labels and names for the multitude of diseases they have encountered. These illnesses only continue to grow more plentiful because we continue to ignore the deeper causes in lieu of treating the surface symptoms. The irony in all of this is there are more disease labels now than ever, despite medical and medicinal advancements. However, they all stem from the same place and the same root cause.
There may be some who would argue the concept that we each hold the key to our own health on the basis of babies being born with seemingly irreversible illnesses. The only problem with that argument is our culture has yet to fully uncover and acknowledge the energetic imprint a child can encounter as it progresses through the gestation period.
The baby is constantly receiving information at a subtler level from its mother, via her emotions, attitudes and outlook on everything, along with the environment they’re both consistently being exposed to (even though the baby’s still in the womb). We often envision the womb as safe, but it can actually be rather severe if the child is consistently exposed to anger, rage, depression, sadness and fear. Imagine being completely isolated for nine months with access only to (primarily) one person’s ‘round the clock haphazard emotional feedback.
A mother who consistently denies the power in her moment of now and focuses upon the injustices of her past, in turn creating more of the same for her future, is doing an unborn child a great disservice (not to mention what she’s doing to herself). Even if the child does not have visible signs of illness at birth, the baby’s own thought patterns and interpretations have already been shaped, to a certain extent, by consistent exposure. We always warn expectant mothers not to drink and smoke, but we completely ignore advising them about the psychological and emotional states they are imposing upon their unborn children.
Now, I’d like to discuss a technique I use to help relieve the run away mind syndrome and minimize the onslaught of the stressful responses it elicits:
Rarely do I suggest actual exercises for my readers to follow, but I believe so strongly in the information I’ve related in this post that I feel a short exercise to help validate the above points will be extremely worthwhile and well worth the application.
Take a few minutes, sometime today or tonight and focus upon the intention to bring your mind as close to a point of complete stillness as possible. Turn off all electronic devices and isolate yourself from any distractions. Get into a relaxed position, either seated or lying down. Close your eyes and breathe deep full breaths, really feeling the diaphragm extending and contracting. You’ll know you’re fully relaxed when your limbs appear to be like dead weight. If you’ve never meditated before, give yourself some time and maybe a few practice sessions to reach this fully relaxed state.
Feel yourself journeying deeper within your awareness. Release your mind’s attachment to controlling your experience and let your higher nature take over. After you have achieved this state (don’t worry you’ll recognize it) you’ll understand what it means to not only connect with your true essence but to also focus all of your awareness into the now. You’ll have a taste for what it feels like to be at one in your present moment.
This exercise doesn’t take very long and it’s not a tough “discipline” to master. It’s sort of like re-discovering something we’ve always known how to do. If you practice it everyday it becomes easier to adapt into your active states.
For instance, if I’m feeling anxious or find my mind rambling and worrying during the day, I recall what it feels like to journey within during my meditation. I become consciously aware of my breathing and feel myself slowing down in the moment. I try and reach a heightened state of observation for whatever is happening, paying close attention to every detail and sensation within the present situation. This lessens the doubt, worry or fear and I become more present. I’m still working at it, but I am noticing progress with consistent practice.
There are other means besides meditation for reaching a state of oneness in the now and they are usually described as peak experiences. These occur when our passion and exhilaration for an experience is flowing strongly. During the event we become so consumed with our involvement that we essentially reach what feels like the suspended state of now I mentioned earlier.
We shut everything out except what’s transpiring in the present moment, thus rendering the chatty mind idle. This can happen during activities which elicit our joy as well as during some forms of exhilarating physical exercise. This is one of the reasons I always speak about following our passions in life.
Before ending this post I would again like to reiterate that I’m not suggesting we should never access memories from the past or think about our future. That would go against everything I’ve written in many of my past posts. The ideas in this entry serve as another piece of the puzzle for establishing the full awareness of the power which resides in each of us.
These concepts can be nicely merged with the previous information I’ve written about creating our reality. If we can’t eventually quiet our minds and find peace within ourselves (even on a semi-consistent basis) we will have an extremely difficult time in manifesting the life experiences we truly desire. This is due to a lack of understanding just how often our minds are in overdrive pertaining to negative concepts and ideas.
If you’ve been struggling with the previous philosophies I’ve discussed concerning our thoughts creating our reality or if you’ve watched films like The Secret and haven’t had a lot of success, you may want to try implementing the above techniques.
Even though I’ve had some success with the intentional creation of my reality, I still have many issues pertaining to the run away mind syndrome. With conscious, consistent application of the techniques, especially during stress filled situations, I’ve already noticed a positive difference in both my responses and my awareness.
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December 4th, 2008 at 7:33 pm
John, I read this post in bed last night and was half tempted to crawl out of my warm down comforter, fire up my pc and respond in great length to this entry. After thinking about it, I opted not to type last night but wake fresh and renewed and type something then. Really only a few things stuck out but some of which I’m most passionate about.
1–Labels! Why must there be so many labels on the human body or the human psyche, I just don’t understand. In this posting of yours, this was the very first time I’ve EVER heard of “run away mind syndrome.” Syndrome, Disorder, Illness and so on, geez! I guess it’s all a matter of mind and what you CHOOSE to allow into your life as an illness, since we create our own reality. My mind can wonder from time and time and even in the middle of a conversation, I can go absolutely blank about where I was going. However, I do not in the least consider myself to have a syndrome or disease of the mind because such a thing has happened. Now other organizations out there would tell you that is NOT a disorder but an effect of the galactic alignment with the photonic belt in 2012. As the energy and frequencies change ON Earth, Earth effects us and especially our electromagnetic biological make-up of these things called our body.
Some would also say it’s because you have to much on your mind. Others would say that something distracted you and you forgot where you were going. Others would say, LoL, you’ve smoked to much green in your life or you didn’t eat right for the day. Personally, I do NOT get hung up about it. I don’t label a right or wrong on it and I’m not saying that’s what I felt you did in this post, please know that. Rather I’m just fed up with every single little “condition” of human living being labeled from our society. It’s OK to forget once in a while. It’s OK to have your thoughts wonder. We aren’t some trained horse or something, we do have freedom to allow our minds to wonder and move about as we see fit. (I really hope this is sounding loving and not confrontational as text words have a way of doing that. I share this in thee most loving energy)
2–Unborn children. You are absolutely right John. Women are never ever told to beware of their emotional state while pregnant as the fetus is hyper sensetive to what is coming and going through the mother. When Mom was preggers with me, she was married to my biological father who was/is a very sweet kind and gentle man. I was the first grandchild in our family so I was wanted and loved strongly by all. 5 years later, Mom and I were on our own, she was preg with my brother and…..I’ll just say we lived through some rather violent and hostile situations. Since the day Bro was born, he’s been angry, upset, hyperactive and rarely at peace. He also has a tremendous fear of being alone where I, on the other hand, tend to thrive being alone. Though I do adjust nicely to living with loved ones but if chosen, I would remain alone with my own space.
I was speaking with a very close and dear friend the other day and we were speaking about the topic of children. He mentioned, and I fully agree, that people shouldn’t be allowed to have children just because they can. Rather they should be qualified in some way before they are even close to “making” the baby. I concur fully! It truly pains me to see women or families having children because of society pressure or because their “so called” biological clock is timing out. Such bs! I wish the deeper understanding of “if it’s meant to be, it will be” was universally understood. In fact, I can think of about 5 women who are in their 40′s-50′s who have no children, by choice I might add, and yet would make thee most fantastic mothers around. They are grounded, mature, understanding, spiritually centered, wise beyond their years, extremely loving and very nurturing. Yet they too have made the delibrate choice to not have children and not bring them into an unstable situation of whatever is going on in their life around them. Moreover, what might look stable now could change drastically in 2 years. Some would say that’s fear. Others would say it’s maturity.
In either event, I love our planet Earth but this place is one crazy zoo!! LoL, the more I dig down into the “rabbit hole” the deeper and darker it becomes. However, it also begins to shine more enlightment on this entire existance we call HUMAN. The amount of information coming forward both on Earth and from WITHIN is just mind blowing, it really is. Sorry again for this long post but as mentioned, I read this section last night in bed and really had to fight myself to leave it be until today. Thank you for your kind patience in allowing me to express myself so openly like this on your website. Your extremely kind John, we are all lucky to have you incarnated and on Earth with us now. Again, I type this all in love.
Many Cosmic Blessings, Goldie~*~
December 6th, 2008 at 3:47 am
Thanks for your response, Goldie. As I spoke of runaway mind syndrome, you’ll notice I initially put syndrome in parenthesis for a reason. I didn’t mean it as a harsh label or diagnosis. It was only meant to indicate how our minds are usually wandering without even realizing it and how frequently those wanderings lead to dwelling on the negative. I believe most of us spend far more time occupying our minds with less than beneficial thoughts than we do with loving thoughts that nurture us.
Of course we have the option to let our minds wander, just as we have the choice not to do it. The main crux of my point in this post is what we allow them to wander toward. From my personal experience, I have found that when the mind wanders consistently, it eventually dwells on less than beneficial things.
It’s sort of like the six degrees of separation theory. If we start wandering to one thing and then another and another, we often bring ourselves right back around to the things we tend to dwell on the most, no matter where we started.
I believe the mind can be strengthened just as the body. This post was a representation (as they all are) of my own personal experiences with the mind and my journey to continue strengthening my own mind.
I’m not saying we should rule out every single stray thought, during every single second, which was why I mentioned doing this at least on a semi-consistent basis. I only meant it’s important to take notice and be aware of where we wander to and how often it continues to occur. It’s this feedback that’s important to assess for someone that’s seriously working toward making major changes in their lives, and I believe those changes always starts with harnessing the power of the mind.
December 6th, 2008 at 11:24 am
I concur with this FULLY! I am sorry if you feel like your repeating yourself in some of your comments back to me, that is never my intention, but the added clarification does tend to help from time to time. I absolutely agree with every point mentioned in your reply and on that note, I will close out this reply and not allow it to “wander” into another book length form on your site
LoL……thank you John, your really something else, I must say……..truly a Divine Rare Soul You Are~*~